Saturday, April 27, 2013

Congenital Heart Walk - Greater Los Angeles Sunday, June 9, 2013

Dear Family and Friends:

As many of you know, on October 1st, Wes & I foud out Alexander was diagnosed with a congenital heart defect (HLHS),which has forever changed our life. That was 6 months ago and despite some  challenging times, he is doing great! To recognize this important time in our lives, we are starting Team Baby Alleman Superman Heart to benefit the Congenital Heart Walk. I would like to ask for your support by either joining the team or sending in your tax-deductible donation today!

Here are just some of the facts: Nearly two million children and adults are living with a congenital heart defect (CHD) in the United States. Each year approximately 40,000 babies are born with a CHD, making it the country’s #1 birth defect. At least 10% of all congenital heart defects are first found in adulthood. Thanks to increases in survival rates, the number of adults living with a CHD rises by 5% a year and adults with CHDs are living longer, fuller lives than ever before.  Your support will continue our progress.

The Congenital Heart Walk is an exciting joint effort between the Adult Congenital Heart Association (ACHA) and the Children’s Heart Foundation (CHF)! This effort will raise funds to help both organizations continue their missions to address the needs of both the newly diagnosed and long-term survivors of congenital heart defects, in a truly inspirational day of sharing, caring and fun.

As you have read, fighting congenital heart defects for our family is personal. Please support our efforts by joining the team or making a donation today at http://congenitalheartwalk.kintera.org. The walk is on June 9th at Griffith Park.


Thanks in advance. We look forward to hearing from you soon!

Yours truly,

Jess & Wes

Friday, April 26, 2013

5 weeks in the hospital, 5 weeks home and then back in the hospital for 4 days

The past week and a half have been busy! Two weeks ago, Alexander had his pediatric appointment. All was well until his doctor tested his oxygen saturations using a Pulse Ox machine (a band is placed on either hand or foot to gain a recording of the oxygen saturation) and the results showed 72 (oxygen level was at 72%), in which Alexander's levels are typically in the high 80's. The pediatrician wasn't concerned because Alexander was healthy and his color looked great. I, on the otherhand, was not comfortable with that, so I emailed his cardiologist to inform her of the results. I didn't hear back from her, and since she wasn't concerned, I relaxed...

A week ago, Alexander had his cardiologist appointment. When we arrived, Alexander was sleeping in his car seat and so the nurse suggested to leave him in the car seat and that the pulse ox would be placed on his hand. The test showed a 58%! So, the nurse placed the band on his other hand (we don't always get a good reading the first time), and the results showed in the 60's. So she suggested to place it on his foot, well that required him to be woken up, which was fine with me, because I was beginning to worry. Waking him up however, upset him, so now the readings had been taken from both feet, several times, and were jumping around from the 70's to the 80's. The nurse then wrote down 82, because that was a number she was getting more often. When the cardiologist came in, she stated that she might check his oxygen again at the end of the visit because it was varying. After she completed her check up, I asked her if she received my email about Alexander's oxygen sats being at a 72% at his pediatrician appointment. She replied she hadn't received it and that in the future, if I don't hear back from her, it means she didn't get it and to email or call her because she always responds back. She replied that his oxygen sats shouldn't be in the 70's because if they are, then he is ready for his next surgery! (I'm not ready for that by the way!).  We (Grandma Jeannie & I) then left the visit and went downstairs for lunch. As I was eating my lunch and watching Alexander sleep in the car seat, I felt a little unsure about his oxygen levels and decided to get another test done. I went back into the cardiology office, talked to his cardiologist, who said that we could test his oxygen levels again. Sure enough, he was bouncing from 60's, to the 70's to 80's, to 60's. With that, she suggested for him to be admitted  overnight for observation.


Alexander was placed on oxygen, had another echo cardiogram done (which he didn't like and screamed loudly because the tech was pushing on his pacemaker, trying to get a clear view of his Pulmonary Artery). The echo cardiogram showed that Alexander's blood flow going through the Pulmonary artery, where his PA band is, has slowed down because a muscle behind the heart is somewhat blocking the blood flow. They suggested to put him on beta blockers, but to wait until a baseline was retrieved of his oxygen levels.

Friday came with still no answer of why his oxygen and pulse rate were fluctuating. The talk of going home with an oxygen tank was discussed or possibly having his Glen procedure sooner than later-which began to freak me out! The doctors took blood and did a chest x-ray to rule out other possibilities. The blood test showed that he was slightly anemic and needed a small blood transfusion ( I believe this would be number 7 for him). As you know, Alex has had several transfusions, all which have helped his oxygen level increase during our previous stay. When preparing for the transfusion, a lab tech came in and took blood using a needle and then an IV line was placed in his foot (which he screamed). The transfusion happened over night and on Saturday morning, I woke up to a lab tech waking Alex up to take blood to test his blood count. As I watched, the  lab tech had pricked Alexander's heel and was squeezing the blood out, making Alexander scream! When I asked why she couldn't just use the IV line that was in his foot, she said that wasn't possible and "how else should she take blood, by a needle?" UM YES!!! I told her that another tech did yesterday and he barley cried. She just continued with what she was doing and said this was the way it had to be done. I then find out, that  using a needle to pull blood is a better procedure than what she did! I was one upset mommy! After that mess, Alexander's oxygen saturation were in the high 80's to low 90's and the talk of heart meds and going home with oxygen was off the table. We were discharged Sunday morning and have being doing good since!
So happy to be home!
We are trying to get back into a routine now. The routine that was in place was more because Alexander's oxygen levels were low resulting in him sleeping more and eating less. Even though this was occurring, he was still gaining weight and as of Tuesday, he finally hit 8 pounds! He weighs 8 pounds 3 ounces yesterday! I'm so happy he has finally reached 8 pounds, that he is much more alert now, and I hope it continues for the next couple of months. We did ask the doctors if a blood transfusion was going to be needed again next month an they said that most 2 month old babies have low blood count and that the next couple of months his red blood cells should be maturing. We are working on getting a pulse ox machine to have at home, to check his oxygen sats when we see a change (which I did a few weeks ago but thought it was just him being a baby and constantly changing).

I've learned to always have an overnight bag in my car (as i was in the same clothes until Friday night) and to follow my mommy instincts. Hopefully we get it the Pulse Ox machine soon and before our visit to the cardiologist next week.


Sleeping with a smile!
Smile starting to appear!

Alexander is beginning to smile when he is awake! (he always smiles when he is sleeping). Looking forward to seeing more of that! 

Positive thoughts and prayers for a healthy Alexander are always needed!

Thursday, April 11, 2013

Guess who is 2 months old today!





These past few weeks have blurred together but we are all doing good! Alexander is doing great with gaining weight. He currently weighs 7 lbs and 7 ounces! He continues to keep us on our toes, with him changing every day. Last week he had his mommy worried because for 5 days straight (7 lbs. 1 oz), he wasn't gaining or losing weight. Then the nipple shield that was used during nursing was removed and with the 3 bottles a day being continued, he is now gaining weight at a great pace.

Over the past few weeks, Wes & I have been working on getting Alexander into some sort of routine and we are still working on it. It seems that as soon as Wes and I get comfortable with a routine, Alexander changes it. Sometimes he sleeps all a day, sometimes not; sometimes he wants to eat every 2 hours and some days he has to be woken up to eat; some days he vomits and some days he doesn't; and so the ongoing question: is this a normal baby thing? or a cardiac baby thing?



Alexander having one of his "moments"
Being a mommy is GREAT but  challenging! I know all moms will agree with me on that, but I feel as though having a cardiac baby is a little bit more challenging. When Alexander cries for a reason I can't figure out (feeding, cold, hot, tired, and diaper changed, have all been ruled out) I wonder if something is hurting him internally. I could give him Tylenol but I don't want to give my son drugs if he doesn't for sure need them...so he cries it out, turns a red, blue, purplish color until something distracts him (usually this involves going up and down the stairs or playing heavy metal or country music!). The part of not knowing why Alexander is crying after all variabes have been ruled out is what I don't like dealing with but have been told "that's normal..."

Our life saver!
 
Alexander"s  cardiology and electrophysiologist (pacemaker doctor) appointment he had  two weeks ago, went great. Both doctors were pleased to see how well Alex is doing. Alexander's Cardiologist stated she almost didn't recognize him! :) We go back to CHLA next week for another check up with his Cardiologist.
This week we were down at CHLA for an Ophthalmology appointment. We had the appointment because during his previous MRI (before his surgeries) the NP saw that his right optic nerve looked small.  His opthamologist stated that his optic nerve was small, but that he is small and that it is common for babies to have small nerves at this age. She also said that Alexander is far sighted in both eyes. Again-kind of normal, but she wants to see him in 6 months, to see how his eyes are. Overall his opthamologist said that there was nothing they could do about his eyes right now because he's so young and was surprised the NP suggested for him to come see her. So, the appointment was kind of a waster of time, kind of not. Tomorrow, Alexander sees his pediatrician. Alexander has been coughing and sneezing a lot more, so hopefully it is nothing and that his appointment goes well.

Wes went back to work last week and has been fighting with his allergies ever since. Lucky for me, that even though he may not be feeling the greatest, he is still helping me out and being a great dad. G-Ma Jeannie came to help out last week and Auntie Jenn helped us out this week. 


We are hoping Alexander will continue to gain weight at a good pace.We've been having play time during the day when not sleeping, eating, or being fussy and hopefully soon Alexander will start smiling at us during play time.

The positive thoughts and prayers are always needed for our little superman, to continue to stay healthy and grow! 
Boys "watching" NASCAR!
Easter picture!